Tuesday, February 19, 2013

Heck with the cat--I hate going to the vet

Fun was on the itinerary yesterday (not!) as I loaded Hobbes into his giant-sized carrier to take him to the vet. It was time for his annual check-up, and fortunately for both of us, not time for his shots just yet.

The poor guy didn't know what hit him, as I sprung our surprise trip on him as I walked in the door from work.  Poof! The cat carrier just appeared from behind me.  Clink! The door swung open and I quickly shoved the orange stripey into the carrier. Slam! The big guy was behind bars before he could back out.

So far, so good.

I hate going to the vet.  There must be some law that dictates that the mom has the luck of the draw on taking care of everyone--pets included. While that's not fun on the easiest of routine visits, it's the sad visits--the ones in which Fluffy Wuffy doesn't come home with us--that sticks in my mind every time I buckle that carrier into the back seat.  Sigh.  I've been on far too many of those visits and I don't care to repeat them anytime soon.  He's healthy....but...you know....

Hobbes isn't a chatty guy in the car or in the vet's office.  He's quietly stealth in that giant-sized carrier, while Homer, the cat next to us sang the blues from inside his wee cat carrier across from us.  His mom decided to make conversation with me and we compared notes on kitties, dogs, and whatever else came along.

And came along, it did.

As we sat there, talking about the vacancy of the waiting room, I commented on how I don't like to have dogs sniffing my cat carrier while the owner smirks how much "Sparky loves kitties!"--with no regard to the fact that my cat is held hostage to Sparky's nose.  Ugh.  It was pleasantly empty yesterday though--with only blues-singin' Homer and Hobbes...wishing silently that we were done with all of this silliness already.

It was then that a red-faced couple came in holding their pug in a blanket.  My new-found friend exclaimed "Oh! Here comes a dog..." and the couple and their dog rushed into a room quickly. Too quickly.  She looked at me. I looked at her.  And the silence was deafening.

It was one of those visits.

We just sorta looked at each other and tried to change the subject.  Then Homer was called in....and Hobbes soon after.  We smiled and said our good-byes, wishing each other happy vet appointments.

Our visit went well--Hobbes is too fat, but we sorta knew that already.  The doctor was positive, but gave me some suggestions for slimming the big boy down.  She never let Hobbes feel bad--she was all baby-talk and smoochies for the Orange, while telling him that he was "lovely" and never once mentioned him looking like an ottoman or anything like that.

As I was struggling to carry my orange stripey back to the receptionist to pay, the red-faced, and now, gently sobbing couple quickly left the building behind me.  She carried the pug's blanket, he held the door, wiping his eyes.  It broke my heart.

Been there, my friends.

When we got home, Hobbes got two hugs--one for being such a good boy, and the other....well, just for being.  Still.


17 comments:

Grace said...

A vet that we went to for many years had a side exit for sad occasions - going through the waiting room after losing a furbaby can be upsetting for everyone...glad Hobbes is well...

Duni said...

Oh no...so sad.
But very glad to hear Hobbes is well :)
I absolutely hate going to the vet too. The appointment is due in May.
Gulp. We have a giant carrier for Sammy as well!

Secondary Roads said...

That's such a sad story. (About the couple and their pug's journey to the rainbow bridge.)

I'm just glad that Hobbes problem is there is too much of him to love. And just how can that be a problem. I mean really?

Marg said...

Oh that is so sad. That has happened to me so many times.I hate it when you are not prepared for the cat to not come home. That has happened to me a couple of times. That is so hard.
Glad that Hobbes had a good visit and is OK. I am on my way to the vet in a few minutes myself. Our Orange boy is having trouble eating. Take care.

Jerry E Beuterbaugh said...

If you were better behaved, maybe you could start going to an internist or some other people doctor. How many times have you been told that regular people don't like having their furniture scratched up? Oh, and that incessant squalling whenever you get bored...

vanilla said...

Happy for Hobbes that that is over. Our last visit to the vet was one of tears; but it has been over a year now.

Hot Rocks said...

Oh, so sad about the pug...we had a pug as kids, and she was a family member for almost 20 years. My cat is pretty good at the vets...but he too is a blues singin kinda guy...but moreso in the car!

Glad that Hobbes checked out well. It will be spring soon, so he can get out and exercise some of that excess weight off!

Florida Farm Girl said...

Oh, it breaks your heart to be doing one of "those" visits. But all the love beforehand, well...........

Glad your Hobbes is doing well. My grandkitty Hobbs is about 18 and is definitely showing his age. His sister, Cosmo, too.

Katnip Lounge said...

Kiss Mount Ornj for me!

it's terrible that our pets die before we do...that last visit is awful.

Patty Woodland said...

It is hard to leave without them. I have done it too many times to count. But they do give us so much no matter if they own us for a month or 18 years.

Nancy said...

Ugh, I know! I hate the, "so, what do you feed them?" Questions. My vet actually told me last time, "You know, some kitties are OK on junk their whole lives, like some people, but Lucy, she's just not." And now we're on $35/ 7LB bag food. Ugh.

That aside, Mike always says, buying a pet is buying a tragedy. He's right. But, that doesn't make it any easier to go through it and that certainly doesn't mean we'll stop having pets. Just hard...

Candy C. said...

I'm glad Hobbes was just in for a checkup! I feel bad for the pug's family, been there too and it's never easy.

Anna said...

Dear Lin,
Poor couple with the pug. Glad Hobbes is alright.

I am still sad about Sara, but I have stopped crying and try to remember her when she was in her prime. Sara got twelve years and was a wonderful pet.

I have five other cats who need my love and attention. And they are all young cats, full of life and mischief.

But I understand that couple better now that Sara is gone. It is not easy to let go.

Hugs to you Pally!
Anna

BeadedTail said...

I would have been sobbing with them about their pug too. I can't even go to the vet any more because I cry in the waiting room for no reason other than sad memories. Yeah, I'm weird.

Glad Hobbes is okay though! Give him a hug for me!

Lin said...

Grace--They were quick in and out. I'm still wondering when they paid. It's never easy, for anyone involved.

Duni--I've got to bring Grace next. That I dread because she is getting old. :(

Chuck--Well, when he's sitting on your chest first thing in the morning when you wake-up--that's sorta a problem.

Marg--I've been there too. It's awful. I hope your Orange is okay. Keep us posted.

Jerry--Well, at least I don't groom myself. ;)

Vanilla--It's awful and something you don't forget. I was so sad to see those people so heartbroken. :(

Hot Rocks--He's got cabin fever so bad! He went out today in the freezing cold, but at least he got out for a minute.

Florida Farm Girl--It's so hard when they get older. :( My Grace is 15 and I have to take her next. I'm not ready for any bad news.

Katnip--I gave him a smoochie for ya--which he loved. :) I hate those bad vet visits too. We've had too many of them.

Patty--Yep, it's worth all the heartbreak when you count all the joy they bring.

Nancy--Oh, man. What are you using? We give him Blue Wilderness or as we call it "Cougar Catfood" (there is a lynz on the front). He doesn't like the wet stuff, but he loves his Cougar Cat Food! Love that Mike--Hamsters are buying tragedy, I think. You have them for a year or two, then they always die some slow, awful death. Hate that.

Candy--Yeah, it's our annual trek to the vet. You should see me trying to lift his carrier! Yikes. I'm still sad for that couple. :(

Anna--Each day gets easier--not that you forget, it's just the pain of losing her dulls with time. I think having other kitties there will help you remember all the good times with Sara. ((hugs))

Beaded Tail--I will admit to tearing up in the car. It was so sad! I'm still freaked out going to the vet--I've lost too many kitties and that memory is just too fresh. You aren't weird--it's just too fresh. I will go find him now for that hug!

red dirt girl said...

My sister's a vet .... in Georgia. So I used to wait for our annual summer visits, bring the dogs and get vet'ed for free. Then came the divorce, the depression, the full time job .... and I really miss my sis, the vet. I'll admit while she was in vet school we both dissed the cats. But afterwards, while she was building her own clinic, she subbed for a cats only clinic ... and really liked it! Now she has 5 cats roaming her farm and house (not including the 7 dogs and ummm I think it is now 5 horses) :)

The animals are her 'kids'. And I truly understand why she loves them so much. Give Hobbes an extra hug from me too. No, I'm not necessarily a cat lover, but I know he means the world to you. And you to him. And that's a love I respect.

xxx

Catherine said...

I'm glad Hobbes got extra love!
xo Catherine