Tuesday, October 4, 2011

Little Victories


This weekend, the Colorguard was down.  We had one girl in a boot and could only perform half of the show. We had another who apparently enjoyed Colorguard breakfast too much and was busy vomiting during warm-up and couldn't perform.  The last straw was our captain who sustained some sort of injury during the week and decided not to perform.  So, we were down to 5 1/2 girls out of our already-small group of 8. We typically have 15 girls in our guard, so you can see how we were at a disadvantage going into the season.

Being that the leader was m.i.a., Em was asked to step in and do her solo as well as her own.  No pressure--this only required Em to do a huge rifle toss before the music started--with the downbeat of her catch the start point of the show. Em was a wreck--dropping that toss would start the show on a negative. Ugh.

Poor Em was a wreck and no encouragement or coaching could put her mind at ease.  It was up to her and her only. And while the other girl sometimes drops the rifle, Em really couldn't do much worse--but she wanted better.......for herself.

Em came through--she flew that rifle in the air and caught it. It was very dramatic. And you could hear my "YEAH!" reverberating off the stands in front of us.  I swear I willed that kid to succeed--not for me, but for her. Parents do that sort of stuff--we're downright silly.

Not only did Em succeed in her moment of pressure, but those other girls pulled together, gaps and all, and took first place in their category for Colorguard. 5 1/2 girls rocked it. They beat full teams of colorguard and they did it by teamwork.

Sometimes it isn't the big things that matter as much, but the little victories instead.  It is the little triumphs, the personal goals, the succeeding in pushing yourself and achieving.  It is overcoming the odds and then, perhaps, winning.  It was Em nailing that toss, the remaining guard girls pulling together to compensate for the loss of team members, and then winning the category. It's those little victories that are so very sweet.

At the end of a long day competing, all of the Drum Majors from the various bands line up along the football field to represent their school at the awards ceremony.  Typically, the Drum Major is accompanied by the Colorguard leader and they do this little Drum Major/Colorguard salute when their school name is called.  It's pretty cool to see the various salutes--I was totally amazed the first time I saw this part of the competitions. 
Anywho, Em was given the honor of representing our Colorguard down on the field with our Drum Major on Saturday. The director let her go down because of how well she did--and that kid couldn't have been more excited.  Such a small gesture that meant so very much to her.

I took this photo when it was announced that the Colorguard won--you can see it on Em's face. There was that smile, the proud smile of knowing you did well.  And you scored a little victory for yourself....and for your team.

16 comments:

vanilla said...

Well done! That was just very special for Em. And for her Mom.

Mary Ann said...

Good for Em and her team. Though I'd have to say good for you too for being a parent who shows up and supports Em's efforts.

Diana - FreeStyleMama said...

Congrat Em & ABSHS!

Anonymous said...

Hey...Hey...Hey...!!! Congratulations to Emma! What an accomplishment under heavy pressure! Love the smile on Emma's face...I can only imagine the smile on your face too! The double dimples were flying high that day! Congrats!

Wendy

Grace said...

Living up to your own standards can often be harder than living up to someone elses. But it is also the most gratifying.

Nancy said...

Wow, go Em! How exciting for her!

Anonymous said...

Gma Phyl is soooooo proud!!!

Secondary Roads said...

Congrats Em! Well done gal.

There is nothing silly about wishing your child well. What a great day for all of you.

Pricilla said...

Well isn't that what it's all about! go Em! Go team!

Veronica Lee said...

Congrats Em! Aunty V is so proud!

Rebecca Mecomber said...

OH WOW!!! Hurray for Em and the team! I would have been hollering, too-- I know exactly what you mean about parents wanting to see their kids succeed, for the kids' sakes. "If your child asks for some bread, would you give him a stone?" Course not! :D

So glad -- after all the tension and hard work -- of your victory. Woohoo!

Ann said...

Way to go Em! Great job.

BeadedTail said...

Congratulations to Em and the entire team! They have every reason to be very proud of their accomplishments! And you do too mom! :)

Lin said...

Vanilla--I was happy--for her. :) It was a good day.

Mary Ann--I wouldn't miss it!! It's too much fun. :)

Diana--:) Thanks, pally!

Wen--Oh, it was a good moment, Wen. I have to admit to getting a little teary on that one.

Grace--Oh, I agree. I'm hardest on myself. Aren't we all?

Nancy--Wasn't that great?! Every kid should have a moment like that.

G'ma Phyl--I was too. :)

Chuck--Yep, it was good to see your kid do well--especially when she wanted to so badly. It was a good day.

Pricilla--It was so good to see the team step up. They sure deserved that win!

Veronica Lee--Hee! Hee! She liked that Veronica. :)

Rebecca--It was such a great day AND a happy ending! :)

Ann--Thanks, pally! She was sooo excited.

Beaded Tail--I had nothing to do with it--I'm just glad that I'm included and allowed to be there for these moments. I'm pretty darn lucky, I guess.

The Crazy Suburban Mom said...

Congratulations Em! What a day for her and um, you :)

Anonymous said...

...goosies! Fran's Dad